You aren't actually helping!

- Granthika Manirao “Sit like a Lady, don’t cross your legs; Show some skin, what a slut; Put on some makeup, you look fake; Get skinny, don’t you ever eat? You’re so fat, stop eating Why does your hair look like that? Why do you have body hair? Why don’t you do something about your skin? Why aren’t you married yet? Having a child is what defines your life as a woman” These kinds of questions and opinions sound annoying, don’t they? Imagine having to face these and even more on a daily basis, oh wait, you don’t have to imagine, this is reality, in lives of women on a daily basis. The worst part about it is that people who ask these questions justify it by simply saying “I was just trying to help because I care”. The “I just wanted to help”, is one of the most commonly used phrases, as an excuse for acting like a jerk to a person. Let’s take the basic example of a girl, who j...